The Moodsign – A Review

We get to review many cool things. Due to our focus on relationships, we get some adult themed products that run the gambit of books to toys. Today’s offering is “The Mood Sign” which is marketed as a “non-verbal communication device” for couples. The device is a combination of cards that have blank cards, erotic fantasy cards, quid pro quo cards and a battery operated device that have little arms that light up with different colors.

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365 Sex Thrills – A Review

Recently we have been hearing about couples who committed to having sex every day for a year. The stories we have heard range from the women regaining their libido and the couples developing a deeper understanding to ‘I’m glad that’s over’. CoupleDumb supports a healthy sexual life. This includes being emotionally healthy. So, if you and your partner are in a good relationship and wondering what you can do to spice up your love life, look no further than the 365 Sex Thrills by Lisa Sweet.

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Lingerie And Other Fun Bedroom Activities

As you know, Lee and I promote fun experimentation in the bedroom. Sexy lingerie and corsets are fine. OK, maybe not the corset because Lee likes to be comfortable. She is not the only one that does the dress up thing. Before we got married, I gave Lee a birthday present that kind of set the tone for our relationship. The girl that I was with before Lee was one of those typical head case girlfriends. No matter what I did, I could not impress her. But Lee was different. She seemed genuinely happy to be with me. So I took a risk and put together a special birthday package. It has her favorite perfume, a rose, a negligee, and a beefcake calendar of me. Realize that I am 6 feet tall and weighed 128 pounds at the time.

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Have Good Sex

Sex is not the end-all and be-all of a relationship but the lack of it in a relationship is very telling. When a couple is not having sex, this can be an indicator of an imbalance in life. Work, children or general life stress becomes more press than having conjugal relations with your partner. Lack of sex can also be a symptom of something more severe. It can show that one of the partners is missing trust, urge or a feeling of safety.

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Bork Reveals The Real Deal – A Review

We have two boys. Lee handled our daughter when she was younger and told her all about the facts of life and the birds and the bees. I did not envy her. I could not imagine having to explain hygiene and periods and shaving your legs mostly because I never went through that. Now, I have two boys and it has been made abundantly clear that I am to deal with these talks with our young guys as they move into becoming young men. Even though I went through it, I have no idea what to say! Luckily, Terri Shearer Trenchard wrote a book called “Bork Reveals The Real Deal about the Facts of Life” and she answers any and every question they may have and many of the topics that I would have probably forgotten.

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Sex Is All In The Mind

The power of psychological foreplay can be seen everywhere. Psychological foreplay is visual, tactile and aural. It is your fantasy playing out in your head. It is the right words at the most inappropriate time. It is flustering your partner. When done right, psychological foreplay is the savior of any marriage. It constantly reminds the couples that, before the kids were around, this is how we spoke with each other. It brings the sexy back.

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Why Have Sex?

Why…..Is the hardest thing you ever have to answer. ‘Why’ is the root cause, the impetus, the answer to the riddle… ‘Why’ we do anything has been the question since the beginning of recorded time. In fact, there is a whole school of thought in psychology that says, ‘forget why, just focus on the what’ because we don’t have the time to wait for that answer. Well, CoupleDumb is not from that school. We are what you would call, ‘Old School’. We are all about the ‘why’. We are all about getting to the motivation, traumas and decisions. Only when we answer ‘why’ can we move on to ‘what’s next’.

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When To Have Sex

So you look across the table and decide that you really like this person that you have been dating now for 1, 3 or 15 weeks. Yes, you know that you are going to ‘give it up’ at some point with this person. So the big question becomes, when. When is it too early? We have a name for women who drop their panties too quickly. Unfortunately, we also have a name for women who drop them too slowly. And, yes, guys do not have all of the bad names but they do have just as much of the crazy. Too soon and you are a player, not serious about the relationship. Too slow and you’re into other guys or you’re a monk.

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