Jul 162012

Real Relationship Advice

life2 300x300 What Makes Life Worth Living?

When a Psychologist looks at what makes life worth living, he/she goes into a dark room and thinks really hard and comes up with questionnaires and tests to administer to a big group of random people and asks just that. What they have found is that there are certain things that make life worth living. According to Martin Seligman, one of the founders of Positive Psychology, people value the following:

  • Well-being, contentment, satisfaction of the past
  • Hope and optimism of the future
  • Flow and happiness in the present

On an individual level the traits that people value are:

  • Capacity for love and vocation
  • Courage
  • Interpersonal skills
  • Aesthetic sensibility
  • Perseverance
  • Forgiveness
  • Originality
  • Future mindedness
  • Spirituality
  • High talent
  • Wisdom

In society, the following traits are valued:

  • Responsibility
  • Nurturance
  • Altruism
  • Civility
  • Moderation
  • Tolerance
  • Work ethic

What makes your life worth living?

Do you feel satisfaction, contentment about your life up until this point?

How do you feel about the future?

Lee and Paul


I am pretty pleased with my life so far...as long as it continues on this path, I will remain happy!

Jessica Cohen
Jessica Cohen

So interesting. The one I always refer to as mine is personal fulfillment.